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Where are the pics of the male partners ?

October 21 2025

Why do so few couples have photos of the men. Truckloads of the women, who are sexy of course, but hardy any of the guys? Please people as a couple we want to get a feel for both of you not just 50% of the overall picture.

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Temptress_T
7 months ago
We have found this too. I like to see the male, especially when playing with a couple. Most will send pics when requested but it would be nice to have some idea before making contact.
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Nightglider
7 months ago
A question I’ve often wondered myself too.

Honestly, it’s one of the main reasons I stopped engaging with couple profiles.

In my opinion, most of those setups feel like clickbait, all about showcasing the Mrs. to attract attention. I totally get it when it’s a hotwife or cuckold style dynamic and they’re upfront about it.

But when a couple says they’re looking for solo women or other couples yet never shows the guy, it just feels off. Kind of like solo profiles with no pics.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 months ago
Lol Because it's not a couple!
It's Mr wanker.

Ms Foxy 🤭🫣
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RHP User
7 months ago
I always feel in that case they should just start a single profile and meet alone.

The reverse is what we can see as guys - a single female profile that states they only fuck with their husband present. So why not have a couple profile as Rhp won’t allow the hubby’s photo as it doesn’t match the profile status?

I’m all for being watched but I’d like to know by who before I invest time in starting a conversation.
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AussieAndPom
7 months ago
We feel the same. We like to see both parts of a couple…together! And as much as we like the odd NSFW pic we also like to see SFW pics - maybe from evenings out, holidays, occasions etc. It’s hard to explain but gives us a sense of if we’ll click or not!
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Blueflamingo
7 months ago
"T&C's apply"
"Chances are, you're about to loose"...
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selfless__lover
7 months ago
When I was on here as a couple we had photos of both of us but noticed a lot of couples profiles focused mainly on one partner. Usually we'd see why if we met them as one of them was letting the team down and batting out of their league 😂
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Cheekyeurocouple
7 months ago
Good question hence why theres a male pic on our profile
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mkycouple1978
7 months ago
Our first time to a swingers club and the very first couple we chatted with asked what our rhp was and the first thing she said was “I saw your profile and kept scrolling because there was no male photo. I’m the girl and I need to see what I’m getting” hence we’ve now changed it to husbands photo. It also cuts down 80% of single guys checking out our profile.
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BellaMelb
7 months ago
Objectification of women.
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SweetSerenade
7 months ago
Simple answer; he's unattractive and pictures of him reduce their inbox activity.
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Chelsea83
7 months ago
THIS!!!
As a unicorn looking for her fist couple I'm so tired of 'coupe' profiles with no pics of the man.
I'm sure some of the profiles are amazing people that I'd probably click with and could have had a great time with but only seeing 50% of the team, No Deal.
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Sp_icemeup
7 months ago
I respectfully asked a couple why they didn’t have any photos of the male partner on their couples profile. Their response?
“That’s what people want to see.” 😳

I actually paused and thought, Did I just read that right?

My mind went straight to: But what do you as a couple want on RHP?
I didn’t bother replying — just moved on.
Still… interesting. 🤔
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Serendipity69
6 months ago
That is something that we notice a lot and dress as event organisers and talk to people about in that setting up a profile as a couple you should represent both of you because it's important as a couple that you are both attractive to the person or people that you are trying to attract. Maybe an assumption is reasonably safe to assume that if there are no photos of him then there is a reason for it
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Letsbefriends123
6 months ago
I can guarantee you won’t ever see her because there’s only him in this particular profile
He’ll say she is busy tonight but I can play or I’ll come tonight and send her the next
😂
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MrandMrsWAP
4 months ago
Totally agree! My man is equally in our photos because it annoys us when the men aren’t lol
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everlastinglight
4 months ago
I assume they are scam accounts, as others have said either the Male partner is not very attractive or it is because he has used his partner's photos without telling her, but won't upload his own for 'privacy reasons'. Either way, very bad behaviour. 😟
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DomNdarling
3 months ago
Following for insight. It could be maybe because most guys mainly talk on the account and scare of the girls maybe?
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PandaAndBri
a month ago
From our point of view, it’s usually Panda taking the shots. I am not as good as a photographer as he is but also he is pickier about his shots. But yes I agree, need to be both parties in couples profiles. Bri
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LittleBitCountry
20 days ago
As a relatively new couple we’ve been slowly (hopefully) improving our profile as we experience new things and learn what we like. That includes enough pics of us both to give people reasonable insight into us. Due to our preference for discretion we don’t have public face pics but we do have a decent private gallery of recent photos (all safe for work) that we share when we start to message validated profiles.

We are drawn to profiles that have a captivating and well crafted bio more than the pics. We’ll typically skip by un-validated profiles with a few hot pics of her without a meaningful bio. That’s often a red flag in our opinion. In the same vein, people who put effort into their original message go to the top of the response list.

Yes we’re online but it’s not shooting fish in a barrel - a little effort all round goes a long way. So pics of both and a captivating bio is what peaks our interest.

D&T x
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