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What do you look for in people ?

February 09 2026

I'm wondering on a site like this what do you find more attractive? Personality or looks ?

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BooBear68
4 months ago
Id be lying if I said looks don't play a part in attraction, but I find personality is an equal part if not more than looks. As well as honesty integrity and lots of other things especially if it's going to be a semi regular thing. 🧸
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funtimeandy
4 months ago
I agree with Boo,looks play a part,but that being said I don't mean someone needs to be a super model or have the body of an athlete .I find personality and compatibility most important, if people are comfortable sexiness follows more freely
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Firejuggler
4 months ago
With Boo, attraction is important. But at the end of the day if you can't talk to them or it just feels awkward then why bother? It also comes down to communication, if you both can tell each other what you are into, aren't into, then it will be a much more enjoyable experience for both parties.
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MsSuperFoxy
4 months ago
Substance.

Ms Foxy 😇
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selfless__lover
4 months ago
Looks get my attention, personality, a sense of humour and a genuine connection keep it.
Someone could be the best looking woman in the world with a body that makes your jaw drop, but if she doesn't have the personality and we don't click when we talk then it's not going to go anywhere for me.
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Pocketrocket602
4 months ago
Looks attract me, but personality lingers. They don't have to be models, as physical attraction is subjective to everyone, and I'm humble enough to know some won't be attracted to me.
For instance, I've met some I wouldn't normally be physically attracted to, but their personality piqued my interest to know more. What turns me on more is intellectual, deep conversations more than surface level small talk. Self deprecating humour, emotional regulation and how they treat others is at the top of my list. If you can talk about the wonders of the Milky Way, other cultures and quantum mechanics etc, you get my vote 😁
On the other hand, I've chatted with some absolute hotties who I won't even bother to meet, as three messages in they've turned me right off. I like to think I'm a pretty good judge of character and I won't waste mine or their time entertaining something that just doesn't work.
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Fuckyousweetness
4 months ago
😂
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Notice_Me
4 months ago
Physical attraction is only a small percentage of sexy as fvck
Beyond 'hot', attraction occurs in style, in animation, movement, intelligence, great humor and interaction. Kindness above all else.
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Defonotaverage
4 months ago
Both
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HotAppitite
4 months ago
I don't need a pretty boy. I already have a 🐈‍⬛
I don't need another one 😏
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Fuckyousweetness
3 months ago
By the sounds of it all the average looking guys on this site are just making up that they can't find a female willing to engage chat or meet with them. Chin up guys it turns out your personality sucks not your looks or body.
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RHP User
3 months ago
To be honest looks is a big factor but in saying that if a gorgeous guy can't have a conversation then what's the point! There has to be a small element that comes down to looks but I prefer old school manners and an interesting approach!
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PandaAndBri
a month ago
I like to find something initially that piques my interest in your photo. You don’t have to be a young Hugh Jackman, but a cheeky smile or pretty eyes will intrigue me enough to chat further. Please take time to get a good photo. Have a shave. Clean your teeth and smile. Then it’s your personality that has to shine. A good sense of humour, (I love a bit of comedy, ) witty banter and respect in the chat (no I won’t be interested if the second line in the chat is “Do you want to F?) Don’t send me a dick pic unless I ask. But I DO want to see a face pic. Bri
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