So should you
August 08 2024
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Flirty2020
2 years ago
Whilst this may be considered a “sex site” by many, it is best (in our opinion) to take a gentle respectful approach when contacting others / sending unsolicited messages to others.
Behave and approach as you would in the supermarket, bar, restaurant etc.
The “hot pics wanna fuck ??”( laden with penis photos ) message really is a turn off for most people - one needs only look back and read through the many past forum posts to see what people find acceptable or not.
RHP User
2 years ago
How about read someone's profile and get a gauge of what type of message they are likely to reply to. Seems like common sense to me 🤷♀️
Sawadee
2 years ago
Who in their right mind would send a message asking to get dirty first up ? All it does is tell the reciever who to block ?
Andrea_Sydney
2 years ago
Don’t know?! Which of those would you choose to say chatting up a lady in a pub? Which do you think might work?
Mrs_Deep_Love
2 years ago
Common sense not so common.
Hot tip, the women on here are no different to women in real life.RHP User
2 years ago
I always prefer to be ignored for sending a nice message rather than asking to hook up and get dirty.
Lovinglifenow202
2 years ago
Depends on the type of woman you're looking for right
Inflation
2 years ago
Show some class, show some decorum, and be yourself.
KingQueenTease
2 years ago
How about read the profile, have a chat in the room feel the vibes and then see where you think it could go.
2_Perthguys
2 years ago
Being respectful and polite is always a good way to start. How would you even know if they want to hook up without actually finding out if you might be what they're looking for.
RHP User
2 years ago
Echoing what everyone has sensibly said… read profiles properly, see what people want and go from there.
Hot tip … if the profile doesn’t say “hey message me about how you want to eat my pussy for days” then you really should take that to mean they don’t want you to lead with that.
I usually message first and always lead with an awkward “hi”…
But I have thought about leading with
“heyyyyy sexi hot pics! How cum you’re still single? How about we meet and I can swallow your cock for hours and hours until you can’t take it anymore…”
😂😂
I think I’m a bit funny
boobsandbusted
2 years ago
occasionly on rhp ,you read a post ,that automatically makes you think ,good one dickhead! , and because of the positive comments banner above ,I will follow it accordinglyand ,I will not say this is one of those posts ,but your inspingly close ,well done you 😀😀😀😀
TheMinx
2 years ago
You can't lead with the first if you are really after the 2nd.
So chicks are thirsty and DTF others need more than you are offering.
Looking at your profile I'm not sure any messages would work.
gazpacho
2 years ago
Just be you. That will attract the crowd you like.
RHP User
2 years ago
Unpopular opinion.
Just get to the point of what your actual agenda is. You'll either get a stilletto thrown at you or a vagina or penis. IDK Tho you could probably use Ai to format a better vocab for yourself. Add some thought provoking clout to your "hook up and get dirty"RHP User
2 years ago
Ahoy fellow piefaces, this is a tough one .. great topic as I'm a newbie and often find it difficult to start up as an immature flirt or a Don professor GM style. I've tried both and let me tell ya it's early days but I haven't as yet gotten any reactions of no kind. So please let us have some of that pimp juice like a boss.
False_mirror
2 years ago
I haven't been on this site long, but I've ALWAYS started politely but giving the girl a compliment too.
The responses seem to appreciate it...when they respond.
MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
Wanna root, might work. 😋
gazpacho
2 years ago
Are there rules for this? I reckon you ought to run with how you’re feeling in the moment. If someone is feeling the same way, they may well have the same attitude. If all you ever do is be true to yourself, I can’t imagine circumstances that require you to pretend to be someone else.
Queencobra
2 years ago
I can usually get a vibe about a persons intent or "Mating style" within the 2nd or 3rd message exchange! People either have a sense of humor / respectful and show some type of social self awareness in their communication are people that have catch my attention and deserve a message back! '
And then I go from there.
I cannot understand why some guys say and do the things they do lol the dic pics and cheesy sex talk isn't not a turn on at all.
For me it's about a vibeRHP User
2 years ago
Read the profile and gauge it from that , when we had a couples account we’d always reply to the genuine messages and to those that had clearly read our bio .
TheTwoYouSeek
2 years ago
Think of it from the ladies point of view. She very likely gets dozens of messages per day. If you want to stand out and not be “invisible”, you need to make your first message appealing. Writing about yourself, and keeping it above the waistline until you’ve had a response and gauge the room temp. Never send nudes until agreed. Make sure your public pics are good. No toilet views, scrunched up undies, no fishing pics. A nice waist up dressed shot or if you’ve got a good chest, show it.
RHP User
2 years ago
"Lovely shoes want to play!" Never works lol :)
Thesunlovingsub
2 years ago
Blank or lazy bios are an immediate no for me.
Put some effort into your pics and bios so people can get a sense of you first.
This might help!Frankiesgame
2 years ago
I alwaysgo by the old "hello, how are you?" Maybe I need to lift my game!
RHP User
5 months ago
ive been on this app for 2 days and my favourite thing is quickly becoming this forum… The sheer levels of cluelessness and gross womancentric comments is eye watering. My guy.. predicting your next post will be questioning why you get no replys and quickly concluding that the women here are rude and entitled .. Bet
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