M48
Quick Finish
October 26 2025
Is it a turn off if you need to wait a few minutes for round 2 in other words?
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MsSuperFoxy
7 months ago
As long as his opening act is that I finish first and he’s not a selfish lover, I’m not clock-watching.
Ms FoxyRHP User
7 months ago
Depends on the situation and / or the dynamic between 2 people.
Are you concerned about something that happened which wasn’t spoken about afterwards?Ex007
7 months ago
A guy finishing first (if it is a mutual scenario) is 100% a turn-off. Nothing makes you feel better than being a cum dump for some selfish A hole.
I'm not having a go a that percentage that suffer from premature ejaculation. Those guys usually communicate well and are aware of their condition. They are the champions of using other means to satisfy their partner.
Also wouldn't be waiting a few minutes for a reset, because truthfully most men over 40 can not reset that quickly. Having a longer reset time is natural and it is what it is.
I would be finishing myself off with the dick in my nightstand and going to sleep satisfied.Sawadee
7 months ago
At sweet 16 with the tricky trigger and totally selfish , l would finish in a few minutes.. Not intentionly as l believed this was normal..
No one ever complained until l got into a more serious relationship in my late teens, early 20s ..
These days , giving is more important .. l still have my fun...RHP User
7 months ago
It’s not a turn off for me if he comes first.
The turn off is … if he’s done and wants to go home 😑
That’s selfish…. If your dick isn’t working the rest of the night, your tongue and fingers work fine. 😈😈🔥🔥RHP User
7 months ago
Lasting can often depend on my moods. I was seeing a lass a while back and at the time was lasting much longer than usual. She felt that she wasn't turning me on as I wasn't cumming fast enough.
But I can say the majority of women I have been with are not concerned too much if you pay attention to them in other ways.
And let's face it if you are not paying attention in other ways most women are not happy with those selfish waysShySubmissive
7 months ago
Definitely a turn off its allso a turn off if foreplay isn't involved and they make the whole experience just about them
RHP User
7 months ago
what matters is that he makes me cum too
funlovingii
7 months ago
I am finding that sometimes I don’t cum at all and it has made the girl feel that she’s doing something wrong or that I’m not that into her - completely not true btw, just seems to be one of those things- I can still feel the crazy highs of pleasure, just sometimes without the ejaculation - so for me and her it’s happy days and smiles all round!
Question - do you think you would take it personally if a guy didn’t cum?Thor6
7 months ago
Endless humping without orgasm doesn’t sound like much fun… more like an ordeal or perhaps like a porn show. The idea is for both to climax asap so you can do it all ovet again.
mobydick4000
5 months ago
As a cis man, I always try to ensure the woman is first across the finishing line or I continue by other means to get her there.
In my time, I found different stages and conditions have an effect as a man
- I actually lost my virginity age 20 before I masturbated. It was over before it began so I went to a doctor thinking there was something wrong. He told me it was sensitivity. I did some research and I started masturbating to reduce sensitivity and maintain longevity. So in the long run, that was to my advantage.
- In my 40s I notice things are not like my 30s or 20s. Stress and medical conditions also play a role.
Also, not every woman is the same. I've been with women who have never had an orgasm from punishment penetration, they have needed toys to help finish. But then I've been with a woman who was so intune and so sensitive, once I only had to kiss her neck and another time I was messaging her nipples and breasts. I was nowhere near her vagina.
Ladies, feel free to give your explanations around this!
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