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Public play - Where does one draw the line?

April 16 2026

I’m curious where people land on this topic…

There’s obviously a lot of talk (and appeal) around public “play” - the thrill, the risk, the stories - all of that. I get why it’s a thing, don't get me wrong.

But where do people draw the line when it comes to others who aren’t part of that world/scenario?
Because frankly, I've heard some stories where it seems no consideration was taken into mind.

Like… at what point does it go from shared fun between consenting adults to involving non-consenting bystanders? Is there an unspoken code around discretion, location, awareness etc, or is it more of a “anything goes” mindset for you?

Just interested in how people balance the excitement with consideration for everyone else around them.

Curious to hear different perspectives.

Ta 🙏🏼

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Monnnn
2 months ago
Also just adding - I probably should’ve actually used the word 'consent' in my original post.

That’s really what I’m getting at… there’s a difference between consenting adults doing their thing, and situations where others are unintentionally involved just by being there.

I guess I’m more curious how people justify or navigate that line.
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MsSuperFoxy
2 months ago
You answered it with “consent.”
If everyone’s opted in, fine.

IMO it’s simple: if someone didn’t choose to be part of it, their choice has been removed. The moment others are involved just by being there, that’s the line.

Even at nudist beaches, people consent to nudity, but not to being part of someone else’s play of fucking on the beach or masturbating.
And legally, public sex can cross into indecent exposure pretty fast.

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BarberBoss1981
2 months ago
Curious for the responses as I often wonder this too...I mean if I was out with my mum and we saw some public display going on, we are both going to have an extremely different reaction
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MrandMrsEss
2 months ago
Being naughty in public does have its thrill factor but it’s one of those things that past a point is best left to fantasy.
If it’s exhibition one wants then definitely needs to be in a place where consent is achievable.
Or there’s the thrill of being a bit naughty but being discrete enough to not be seen unless others were really choosing to focus. I love coping a feel discretely, a little squeeze or rub while out and about can build the excitement for later.
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