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Performance anxiety

August 26 2024

Is it common to get in your own head about lasting long enough during a potential interaction. My wife and I have never swapped but have been to many events and have no issue playing with ourselves amongst others and would like to swap at some stage. I do not have Prem Ejac issues, but I am also not the one that goes for an eternity either. Is this a normal thought process for newbies or the experienced or just my anxiety? And really does it matter if something ends a little quicker than expected? I'm always happy to continue to please my wife if it occurs and I think I would if with other people as well. What's some advice on this and if it has happened to you what was the result. I assume everyone is mature enough to not laugh you out of the room hahaha, but I guess it would play on my mind a bit.

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gazpacho
2 years ago
It doesn’t matter a bit. Cum, don’t cum., cum quick, get frustrated because you can’t. These are all part of the human condition. Most of us aren’t in the least concerned.

A game for men is to be the last man standing on a big night out. Go out of your way to make someone cum and say “next”.. if you’re going to cum early though, make sure you leave it somewhere conspicuous!
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NeoAndTrin
2 years ago
I think being with someone new other than your regular partner will often come with anxiety issues - either arriving too quickly or having trouble rising to the occasion.

After you've done it a few times it should be less anxiety inducing for you but may not fully go away.

Just remember you always have a fully functioning tongue and set of fingers and those are just as good.
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Apples_N_Oranges
2 years ago
We wrote a forum topic on a similar thing recently titled ‘Stage Fright - can be a hard act to follow! Have a read, some helpful and interesting responses.
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