New to swinging

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  NeoAndTrin

  a year ago

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  RHP User

  a year ago

  No.1 is get your profile verified. It is not a guarantee. But a lot will not bother to communicate if you are not verified. Too many men try to fake it as a couple. It never works and just wastes everyone’s time.
  Second - go to events and clubs even if it is just to meet people. You will soon open up your network as real couples tend to know other real couples.

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  FeistyFatty

  a year ago

  Verify profile. Pics of the both of you (together). Attend some events (see the event's section) and be patient.

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  Moxyafterdark

  a year ago

  Verify profile trust each other and communicate your feelings about your thoughts and experiences and make sure you are safe

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  ScoobyDoo78

  a year ago

  I would recommend going to the Intro to Swinging nights. Encounterz in Ipswich has one coming up again soon (11/04/2025). You can register and pay online so it is very easy. These nights are good as they show you around the club, let you know the rules, suggestions regarding the discussion and implementation of boundaries between you and your partner, and many other things. You will be able to do the intro evenings with other newbies who are all in the same boat and probably feeling the same way as you. By attending a club regularly, you get to know more and more people. As connections develop so may play. You may be lucky to play on any given occasion when people visit. But you will never know if you never go. The more you visit clubs, the more relaxed you will become. You don't need to do anything with anyone – you’re under no obligation and you don't need to get all your clothes off. You can be as involved or voyeur as you like. I highly recommend it. It is a lot of fun, and I have met some great people who I now call friends.

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