M21

Need help! Need honest opinions

May 09 2026

I’ve been on RHP for about 5 months now. I’m on here to meet up with women and sometimes couples around Melbourne. I’ve had like no interest towards me on here, so now I’m starting to think it’s something to do with my profile. So I’d like your honest opinions if it’s my profile scaring everyone off or do I just have no luck hahah. Also I don’t show my face in my profile just for privacy
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PandaAndBri
25 days ago
Ok. I will jump in. Big flag for me is your relationship status “complicated” indicates to me you are either half in a relationship or you are in one and want to play the field without her knowing.
Your photos are very tasty but it’s the “complicated “ that will turn us off in droves. No one wants to step into someone else’s drama. Either sort out your relationship status, ie be in that relationship and only play if you have permission or be one single with no “complications”. That is my 5 cents. Bri
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mysterious_soul
25 days ago
your profile looks good. maybe your first text message you sent as an opener isn’t that good.

visit the online chatroom, join the conversation there and you will definitely get noticed.

remember online dating looks super easy but is actually one of the hardest ways to meet someone because of all the competition you get from other men
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Fuckyousweetness
25 days ago
In another 5 yrs you will have a line up of 50yr old women kicking your door in, you're just in that dubious age where you are in the same age bracket as thier own kids which they have conflicted feelings about. Just hang in there until then. Or find those cougars that truly hit any legal age as long as they younger and stronger than the man they have.
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Chelsea83
25 days ago
For me, the profile is a bit vague on info for me to take any more notice.
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Nightglider
24 days ago
There are quite a few forum posts on profile feedback already, so it’s worth having a read through those because there’s a lot of great advice in them. You could also browse a few other male profiles (incognito if you prefer), especially ones with validations, and take note of how they present themselves and write their bios. Not to copy, just to get a feel for what works well.

Personally, I find your bio too direct and very focused on play straight away. For some, it may come across a little entitled or give the impression the connection is mainly about what you want. The only line that really softens that is the mention of aftercare. Women generally like to feel safe and comfortable first.

A lot of women and couples tend to respond better to profiles that show a bit more personality, humour, interests, or what you’re actually like as a person beyond just wanting to meet up. Yes, it’s a sex site, but many still prefer a more human approach and some sense of connection first.

Also, being 21 may naturally narrow your audience a bit. Quite a few women and couples on RHP tend to look for people a little older or closer to their own age range, so I wouldn’t assume it’s all because of your profile.
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MsSuperFoxy
24 days ago
At the moment, your profile reads like every other young bloke who thinks showing six-pack abs is a substitute for charm.
Show a nice smiling face, add some personality, and give women a reason to message you beyond your abs muscles.
Because while abs may get attention, personality is what gets replies.
The mystery isn’t why women aren’t replying. The mystery is why you think your profile is irresistible.

Ms Foxy
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Thesunlovingsub
24 days ago
Your bio doesn’t tell women what you’re offering or your preferences so really there is no compelling reason to connect with you.

It also tells us that you’re not interested in anything ongoing unless women fit your criteria, which is very vague. There’s such a big spectrum of preferences here, which is what makes it so wonderful, but I think a lot of women are after something ongoing because it’s so taxing dealing with online dating behaviours, and the depth of connection is often directly correlated to how good the sex is.

Practical stuff:

Fix your age bracket unless you are genuinely into 99 year olds.

Add some pics that show more about you than your training discipline. Women care about way more than a six pack, as lovely as yours is.

Be more specific about the type of hookups you’re looking for, and what you enjoy about women.

Add when you’re willing to share face pics.

I agree with other comments that your age is probably a very limiting factor here. Nothing you can do about that, so I hope the lack of interest doesn’t damage your self esteem too much.

Good on you for putting yourself out there to ask for guidance- that’s already a big green flag 💚

Go get em!
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SexIsFunNow
22 days ago
Your profile only tells me that you have abs (which I must say are very nice)...but says nothing about you. Most women need more that a sexy pic to make us want to catch up. You want sex, fine, but what do you have to offer other than abs?
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Zpaset
22 days ago
There is nothing about you as a person, no interests or things I could use to open a conversation with.
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bootyDD
20 days ago
Personally I'd put some more effort into your profile. Make yourself stand out. What sort of women you are attracted too, looking for
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