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April 11 2025

I think someone needs to set up club nights for swingles. It’s hard as a single woman to approach couples.. I usually get so intimidated I leave early.

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Havinaball3
a year ago
It would be intimidating meeting people you might/will potentially be having sex with but you wil find some will be just like you , new to all this and nervous asf too , just be yourself
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FeistyFatty
a year ago
Take a friend 🩷
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MrandMrsEss
a year ago
From our experience group meets are full of two types. The overly confident and the shy. The overly confident ones usually make the shy ones feel even more shy so that they likely miss the middle of the road confident ones that would be perfect for them.
Haha I guess that’s dating in general and has nothing to do with swingers or sexes, it just is!
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boobsandbusted
a year ago
And that somebody could be you ,have a go and then you can hide behind the mask of orgsniser ,and bingo everyone’s a winner ,if you sit back and wait for others to do it ,it may not happen at all or on a night or place not so convieniate to you ,plenty here to help you

Mr b
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RHP User
a year ago
I feel there is a need for a swingles club but no couples just singles who enjoy all sorts of company.
At least as a single woman you can actually enter swingers clubs
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Flowerme
a year ago
Thanks for the suggestions about taking someone but I don’t want to ‘hide’. I want to be open about it. I just don’t get why single people can’t get together for nsa sex at a venue.
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nightingale8
a year ago
Last play party I went to as a ‘single’ lady I spent the first half of the night chatting to the ladies, and once things got heated up spent the second half deep in play with men and women I’d not spoken a word to all night. I was one of the last to leave 😂

Try a smaller venue or event
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boobsandbusted
a year ago
Same ,spend so much time trying to facilitate something and mostly end up having the best night with people we have hardly crossed paths with or spoken to ,exactly what happened in our last outing l
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Defonotaverage
a year ago
Try being a single Man ,,
No chance of entry
It's a bumber
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BiPeggyGal
a year ago
In your position, I'd just be more motivated as to working on the "why" I'm intimidated to talk to couples, and working on improving my self-confidence and communication skills, research conversational icebreakers etc.

They're all fixable. I went through a period of being shy when I first realised I wanted to meet women, but I worked on it.
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Wetleg
a year ago
Just approach us, nine times out of ten we are just as nervous approaching you.
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Indro24
a year ago
Hit me up prior to an event Ms. F. I would be happy to escort you and help break the ice. If all else fails we can just enjoy each others company.
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