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Long term friends

May 16 2026

This is the guy posting. Just wondering what is the longest ongoing sexual friendship on here. By this I mean however you consider it, be it continuous FWB, casual ongoing sexual encounter, or however you want to classify it.
I’m lucky enough to have had a special female friend for over 11 years now. My wife and her have met several times, and also have messaged each other. I consider myself very fortunate as both are really amazing women.
So, are there any other long term arrangements? What are other’s views?

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Blueflamingo
17 days ago
I have a few friendships from when I started in this lifestyle 10+ years ago in a different state. We check in regularly and catch up when possible 😈.
I also have friends who are no longer in the lifestyle, chasing monogamous relationships, we keep things friendly but are very close, I care for them deeply.
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Sescalinata
17 days ago
Yes, quite a few, after all, if you meet someone you really connect with its nice to keep up as friends regardless of if you are not shagging any more.
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MsSuperFoxy
17 days ago
Does a highschool sweetheart count?

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Chelsea83
16 days ago
Met my current FWB here, going on two years now. We go to events together, try to catch up monthly and chat almost daily.

He is the greatest friend I have and the most spectacular sex I've had in my life. I could handle never having sex with him again, but could be devastated losing the friendship.

Our profiles did not align, different likes and wants, yet I liked his profile, he messaged questioning my interest as he had listed qualities I'd listed as deal breaker.
We got chatting, met a week later, booked a hotel the week after that and the rest is history.

It took months and months and filtering/rejecting hundreds of messages to find that one gem.
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55SexyandSingle
15 days ago
I have made some very long term friendships on this site .. some going back as far as 10 years or more. Whilst I may not play with these men anymore (and some I never did play with but we had a great connection), we do keep in contact and it’s wonderful to have those friendships where I can discuss all things sexual and not be judged at all. I value the quality connections I’ve made through this site
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Still_us
14 days ago
I also should have said I have daily contact with my friend, with my wife’s knowledge. After all this time, I enjoy catching up with her as much as I did the first time we met in person, and would be devastated if it were to end. I also understand this type of relationship is not for everyone.
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