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Live chat webcam, turn on or turn off?

April 14 2026

Hello fellow RHPers,

I’m curious to know what the ladies and couples out there think about men going live on the RHP chat room cam. Do you find this hot, enjoy watching them or is it more like an unsolicited dick pick (just another guy playing with himself) and so turns you off ever talking with the said male?

I assume I may get people in both camps but still curious to know what the majority of opinion may be.

For those of you who do enjoy them, what do and don’t you like to watch.

I’d be interested to hear if there is anything you wish would happen or any cam fantasies that some of you might have.

Respectfully

Oska

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Flirty2020
2 months ago
The chatroom is full of masturbating males, that sit there playing with themselves, but not engaging in any conversation.

We often wonder whether they believe that this will attract females to them.

It’s a turn off for us. As is receiving unsolicited penis photos.
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Temptress_T
2 months ago
I love the male shower cams. I enjoy the male form (it is what I am here for). I also enjoy engaging with a male while he is on cam, catching the little smirk as he reads my message. I am an exhibitionist at heart so I love that they have a place to show their wears. It is pretty easy chocie to just not watch if you dont like
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Mrs_Deep_Love
2 months ago
I don't mind watching. It's a bit of a Sir David Attenborough moment for me.

Interesting but not particularly sexy.

"Here we have the Male of the species showing of his......"
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RHP User
2 months ago
Does it compare to an unsolicited dock pick if you choose to open and watch?? I love watching them and do often. It’s a major turn on when you can see how much they like the photos in my profile. But then, I also like playing on cam and having people watch. Your question doesn’t mention the women and couples who play on cam (and many do) What’s the difference between a guy on cam playing or woman or couple on cam playing?
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MsSuperFoxy
2 months ago
I'm reading there's a bit of "Asking for a friend" kinda vibe here.

There’s a huge difference between someone engaging and someone just performing solo.
One’s interesting, the other is just a boring wanker.
Yes, consent matters in the chat room. Not everyone logging into the chat room has signed up for "The Cock Cam" show.

If the cam’s not getting attention, it’s probably not the audience. Might be time to read the room and rethink the content.

Ms Foxy
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BarberBoss1981
2 months ago
I dont believe it can be likened to an unsolicited dick pic as you actively have to click on the cam to watch it...if they can see its a single male then no point in clicking on if you dont want to see a man with his dick in his hand...its simple.

As Temptress T stated, im partial to some of the shower cams by some of the men in the chat room and theres certain men who I dont mind watching them play with themselves.

Best thing about the the cams is that no one but yourself can make you watch them.

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RHP User
2 months ago
Is the driver for this the exhibitionism - in which case the interactions are less relevant?

Or is it driven by the want to connect and have conversation?

I’ve spent time in video chat rooms and generally seen a lot of guys wanking but not really talking with ppl in the open chats. I assumed they just enjoyed the idea of being live and potentially viewable?

Is there hope of finding a potential fwb by doing it?
Has anyone ever connected with someone and met due to an intro in the chat rooms?
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MsSuperFoxy
2 months ago
Absolutely I've met "lovers" via the chat room.
Yes, I've met people and connected with (10+yr relationships). LOL! Some I haven't even had sex with and I've also attended many functions/meet and greets (locally and interstate).
I know couples that have met via chat room, are married and have children.
It's not always about the wankers.

Ms Foxy
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Blueflamingo
2 months ago
I love a good wank-cam.
Good lighting and cam angle is essential.
Slow and sensual with a bit of teasing before the money shot 💦🥵
Shower cams can be a turn on as well for me.
Couples on cam are usually hot 🔥
Singles cam with a friend visiting is my favourite, but far between unfortunately.

I've seen some amazing cams, some funny cams and some pretty average ones over the years.
At the end of the day... good on those who have the courage to cam, can't really complain when people go online, risking being recorded, abused or made fun of etc. Ive found it can be a great way to connect and meet people.
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RHP User
2 months ago
Awesome
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Newbietwosome
2 months ago
If I open a live and it’s just a close up of wanking I don’t watch it, I’m not offended it just doesn’t do much for me. I prefer to see a whole person and maybe engage with them. But no judgement on what people choose to cam , I just watch the ones I like . Mrs NT
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StickeeCocoPeach
2 months ago
I love watching them, or going in to have some sexy stimulus to masturbate to. Some are just too weird a vibe, but if theres a sexy someone jerking off, I'll enjoy the show and jerk off with them. Its a bit pervy but that what Im here for 😋😉
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Deetsy
a month ago
I enjoy watching in the public cams, I especially like it when they whisper me and I get involved with some dirty talk.

What I don’t overly love, is the requests for private cams. I prefer to be in the audience, if that makes sense. I have watched some private cams, but they aren’t as exciting for me. Personal preference I guess.
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GlitzyGiraffe
a month ago
The women on cam display some creativity, though possibly they have more play zones of interest and use of props.

Many men on cam are so transactional, and as @Temptress said the shower cams at least have a slight level of creativeness.
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RHP User
a month ago
I am okay with them but I don’t tend to sit around watching ,
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RHP User
21 days ago
If I see a penis that is small or strange looking, I am immediately turned off.
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