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How to get viewed?

March 03 2025

Hey there,

Something that perhaps the women on here might be able to elaborate on.

I've recently upgraded to premium, and started at least 15 conversations, yet only 2 have even 'viewed' me, and and two gay dudes (i'm flattered, but I'm only seeking women) are the only other views.

I do drop the 'like' on these profiles first, but is there a better way to draw attention?

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NeoAndTrin
a year ago
Unless you're a 9 or a 10, unfortunately the odds of making contact with even a 5 or a 6 are slim to none.

Massive ratio of guys to single girls here.
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RHP User
a year ago
Please don’t take the lack of attention as personal. There are simply squillions more men than women members. Add in that women get inundated with messages and they simply can’t cope with the number of suitors

Welcome to RHP
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shesarainbow
a year ago
I hate to say it, but you are facing an uphill battle. Women on here receive a LOT of messages every day.

So it’s hard to get the views you might want. Sometimes it’s just the luck of timing.

What I would recommend to maximise your chances is to read their profile, send a message that’s more than just “hey” or dick pics. Properly curated message that isn’t just telling them that they are ‘sexy’

This is of course based on what Ms Rainbow experiences and prefers.

But just be polite and patient. The right people will appear ☺️
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boobsandbusted
a year ago
Try posting a new type of topic and get engaged with the audience not the same old eye rolling type posts , everyone has become immune or mummified against ,

Mr b
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seekandplay
a year ago
Hey there. So, I’d take a little bit of time and really go through the forums - there are soooooo many responses from both men and women that could point you in the right direction.

RHP is a tricky place. As mentioned, the ratios are way off when it comes to Men / Women / Couples / Singles. Your profile needs to be as snappy as you can make it. You have about 5 seconds to impress someone with your message before we press X. If we like your message, then your profile needs to be equally as impressive. What’s going to make you stand out from all the hundred of other messages and profiles we see?

Your message needs to draw us in. Not a:
‘Hey’.
‘Hi’.
‘Hello (name)’.
‘I want to fuck you’.
‘I want to put a baby in you’.
‘Here’s my dick’.
‘I want you to sit on my face’.
You get the idea.

Some women are very particular, some not so much. I’ve been on here for over a year and have made some friends, but only one proper connection which suits me just fine. I am very selective and that initial message is what will always do it for me. Followed by a great profile picture and some decent words in the profile.

Hope that helps. Read the forums and you’ll get the gist of what we are saying.

Good luck!
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YouTarzanMeJane
a year ago
As a lot of women are Guests, they cannot see your Like. They'll just know someone, somewhere, Liked them. However, if you Favourite them they can see that, should they look. Same goes if you Like one of their pics, they can see a list of who has liked their pic. It's also worth mentioning that if you don't "match" what they're looking for, your message may go straight to their Other mailbox... So not seen at all.
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