M45
How do you pick a bot?
June 02 2026
or find out you're being led along by a fake profile, a woman or a couple only to find its a guys cosplaying a profile...... not sure why someone would do that but have had it a bunch of times by some really convincing profiles
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Zpaset
6 hours ago
Bots are easier as you will usually get a response within a set time. They ask questions designed to suck you in but have difficulty answering questions often ignoring the question and asking another question. If you ask the same question in two slightly different ways you often get the exact same answer.
People faking accounts are harder but they will definitely not be able to meet so avoid the conversation heading in that direction. They usually want access to more photos. They will also talk how many men fantasise women on here will speak to them. Asking to see your cork or complementing your big cork and asking to see more. In my experience women are not that crude straight out of the gate, they definitely will want to see what your packing but only after talking for a bit and getting to know each other better.
If it sounds too good to be true then it usually is. Just make sure anything you send can't identify you, that it's only from your albums and you have on your account and spent some time thinking about it. And trust your gut, most women here are looking to meet and will decide very quickly if you are what they are looking for or not. Personally I'm suspicious if I get a reply at all, but I will always treat them as a real person and with respect hoping that they turn out to be genuine.NewOldStock
3 hours ago
I think this is getting harder in the world of AI that's constantly getting cheaper, more advanced and open to everyone
Perhaps ask them to prove they are real early on if you are suspicious to gauge interest or mention that you've had trouble with bots. I think a quick video call or a selfie doing something specific (e.g, them giving a thumbs up) isn't unreasonable to ask for.
I'd be careful if they reply at odd times, avoid normal back-and-forth, rush the relationship, or try to move you to another app right away. If they keep making excuses, ask for money, or if their story does not match up, move on.
There are probably other tells, maybe other commenters can help. It's not easy though for sure.OpalRose
3 hours ago
Pretty easy. Most women don’t rush to throw themselves at random strangers online. Especially women you know are ‘dating down’.
But the real question is why do men pretend to be women so they can see cock? With so much free porn available on tap, why do they need to lie and manipulate? Because it’s fun? To waste others time?
I’m sure it’s only a small percentage of men who play these games. But a larger percentage will lie a little less extreme, with old photos from ten years ago, or a secret marriage with kids, or a mismeasured cock. Or in one personal experience, a wife, a fiance and a gf, two of which are pregnant, plus the rhp girl, all believing they are the one.
Imagine how much we have to deal with as women. Often finding the truth sitting opposite them at a bar. Some of us just give up on seeking men altogether, and get accused of being man haters.
Yes women lie too. In 16 years on rhp im yet to experience a woman pretending to be a man.
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