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Ghosting fuck wits

July 13 2024

I just have to say that I’m a little bit shattered. I have been unwell for the last 18 months also with cancer and treatment and everything and I finally kinda get my Mojo back and just want to get Jiggy with everything and attend the vice part tonight and I was supposed to be leaving shortly and now the person I was meeting Phone no messages are going through. It’s not fair. That’s just made confidences basically all gone. I’m having second thoughts about having to drive over two hours to get to the city. I have to look for a room by myself obviously and I don’t really do that because I can’t afford to I can’t afford to drive home because if I’m pining all night, I can’t be doing that, because it’s really hard on the ruins my little amount of confidence that I have is just like thank God and I’ve wasted five hours talking to this person and for what I’ve been talking to other people that would’ve much more serious

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Shaxxx
2 years ago
I'm so sorry that this happened to you 🥺
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peter196921
2 years ago
Some people are not very nice, guys if you commit to something follow through, as all you do is make everyone else look bad, sorry to hear your frustration Flipzt
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Apples_N_Oranges
2 years ago
Unfortunately that’s the reality of being on here, some people on here are inconsiderate f$@&s. We will never understand why it is so hard for people to write a short message saying ‘can’t make it’ or ‘not interested anymore’. Ghosting is a cowardly act!

Hopefully you find some fun and honest people to play with closer to home.
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MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
Happy to read you are getting you Mojo back.
Had you met the person prior to plans?

Ms Foxy
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RHP User
2 years ago
Sorry to hear. Believe me it’s not just men who fake it.

Messaged a woman for weeks and 30 minutes before, when she said she was in the car coming, she ghosted me. Went to Sunshine Coast and chatted to two women for weeks who both ghosted me the day before.

This weekend messaged and chatted on the phone to a woman in Canberra who seemed lovely. Last minute … oh I’m sick. Ok maybe she was. But then again maybe she wasn’t. Hasn’t responded since
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mi5chiefmanaged
2 years ago
Try not to take it personally, often times the other person gets anxious and backs out, or they always knew they were too shy to make it to the end. You seem genuine and are confidently putting yourself out there which isn't near as common as you believe these days so you're going to have to keep your chin up and screen people with convincing qualities!
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MFMHotWife
2 years ago
flipzta, I understand 100% where you are coming from, I often try arranging blokes to help pleasure my wife, have fairly in depth communications to try to ascertain if they are genuine or not, make arrangements, then get ghosted or cop some lame excuses. It does absolutely nothing for my wifes confidence and frustrates the heck out of me. Ghosters are very real sadly, however, you might want to ascertain the likelihood of gents turning up by checking for Validations on their profile. In my experience, those that are Validated are far and away more likely to meet. Good hunting and hang in there, sure is plenty of fun to be had with persistence.....
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boobsandbusted
2 years ago
If they are that sort of person ,maybe you dodged a bullett early rather than later in the night ,reguardless it is their loss ,glad to hear mojo is coming back ,
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IMTHAMAN72
2 years ago
You have some people who just like wasting people’s time.
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HighburySam
2 years ago
Hello Flipzta. That is so disappointing to have plans fall apart at the last moment but it happens so much with the anonymity of on line interactions. We've almost bred a culture of it being ok, which is really sad.
I've seen a magnificent review of you from someone you met, so there should be a long line of fellas ready to step up.
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Checkingitoutqld
2 years ago
I be more then happy to shout U out for the night chin up
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Kinkysubjade
2 years ago
It can be heartbreaking sometimes, the effort and cost you got to, and they were just pretending or getting off on imagining it.
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RHP User
2 years ago
I just don’t get why people do this . Makes me angry it’s if they get off from doing it . So disrespectful
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EarthQueen
2 years ago
I'm sorry you got ghosted and it does suck especially when you have invested time and money into an event. My advice for next time. Don't invest all your self worth and energy in the actions of some random. It's just some man. He's a nobody that means nothing. Don't make such an effort for someone who hasn't earned it. The universe sends us lessons and now you know for next time. Centre yourself in your life and attend events with people you already have met and preferably women to dip your toe in.
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RHP User
2 years ago
An addition to this issue. Last night met up with a lovely lady. Told me her story about how she and another woman organised with 2 regular playmate guys to book a nice hotel room and invite more guys to join them for a gangbang. They had 10 express interest, 6 seemed genuine. NONE turned up. This was in a large regional town.
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TallBiTaken
2 years ago
Sorry to read this. You look really cute and some lucky person will come along soon. Next time I am in Melbourne you are more than welcome to come to a sex club like Between Friends with me. There are genuine people out there.
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sumbowdy
2 years ago
I wouldn't bail on you!
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Mask_007
2 years ago
I really wish you to get better. You are a amazing person and do wish you a best and quick recovery.
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RHP User
2 years ago
I feel your pain this happened to me well the ghosting thing the night of the date. Happened at a time in my life I could have used some company and connection as it is a stress relief for me. I have come to the conclusion that these guys either get off on sending pics to stroke their ego or they are ashamed of their sexuality and are not interested in women in the first place
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MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
Why are we unnecessarily shaming those who have made a personal choice of their own to self care. Something has happened with the man in question and he has changed their mind. He's allowed too.
OP, you never met the man and was prepared to drive hours to met him. You have also named called and those who do choose to ghost/ignore, F-wits. IMO, That's not appropriate.
You need to also be accountable.

Ms Foxy
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