Getting into the scene

Hi, yeah I'm the NightWarden, but I'm also new year.
I got invited as a single male to a Party in Sydney in late Feb. I'll see how that goes.
But I am spoken to a few bi guys who are Premium members, and it seems to me that they have had a hard time meeting people as single men.
If you want to get into the scene; perhaps to host, perhaps to meet new people, and have exhilarating sex, how are most single males getting into the Sydney scene?