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Genuine Couple
April 09 2026
We are finding the app to be very tiresome, we are verified and validated yet we seem to be the ones initiating conversations/inviting on dates.
Any tips on finding people who match our effort??
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MarriedCouple230
2 months ago
Persistence and more persistence. You can always come to our party when you come to Brisbane after we meet first. Only Premium member can initiate conversations also. We have only been members for a few weeks and still finding our feet but have already made a few new friends after meeting them in person.
PartnersnCrime
2 months ago
My recommendation would be to get out and meet people in person. Online dating never worked for me for traditional dating, and seems to be the same in this setting. Too time consuming, sometimes deceptive, sometimes you ignore really nice people only because they don't have good photo skills 🤣. Go to events and meet real people, so much more fun to live real life.
Monnnn
2 months ago
I've frequently heard that events seem to be a great way to meet people, possibly for couples especially.
None of those typical pre-date concerns and a good night out no matter the outcome.Apples_N_Oranges
2 months ago
We feel your frustration! Relying on your pics and profile info, you guys are exactly what we are looking for. If you ever come to Melbourne, please let us know.
Whiteclaw
2 months ago
Best off going to social functions you get more of a gist of what people are after and if they are interested. Xx Happy hunting!
MissyT
a month ago
Uni opinion: I highly recommend a meet & greet to get the ball rolling and make connections there. It’s a tough environment, made only tougher with AI, catfishing and other disingenuous behaviour.
happygolucky82
6 hours ago
Keep persisting eventually someone or someone’s will present
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