M40
First time
August 06 2025
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touchbase
10 months ago
Find a couple. 🫣
NeoAndTrin
10 months ago
Try going to a swingers club. You'll have the best chance there I reckon. It was how I did it being a single male a fair few years ago.
RHP User
10 months ago
Read some books on it. There’s a lot of material available with first hand anecdotes and experiences from couples and guys.
Take the bit off about wanting a guy to top your ass as you’ll narrow the opportunities to about 0.0001%. Focus on developing good conversations with couples and try to understand what they want.
Essentially, what makes your target customer buy?
And the work out if you can offer it. If you can’t you’re fucked. But if you can you’ll perhaps have more of a chance.nightingale8
10 months ago
If online, send a short paragraph introducing yourself as your first message. Don’t go in hard with your fantasies (the interest will fade quickly) but be open with who you are and have fun getting to know them. If you want to take it up a notch, simply let them know you’re available and that you’re interested. Let them decide on the next steps
Hope you fulfil your fantasies!
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