M39

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December 22 2025

Do women make the first move today? Men are aggressive lets be honest and there are appear to be an over supply of them, women are naturally apprehensive and can afford to be very selective for many reasons i.e jerks, creeps, perves, clingy etc
I don't have a paid account which some might say is a sign of not being serious and it could not be further from the truth, I'm inclined to be a little more passive reserved, let the lady or couple decide and take it from there, i don't want to come across as being desperate and needy. Does that mean I may never have an encounter? The word has become complicated it confuses the crap out of me.

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RHP User
5 months ago
My gramma and spelling is just wonderful ha ha ha ha
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RHP User
5 months ago
Mate unless you are some kind of adonis and gentleman not paying here is almost a waste of time. This place is purely tipped on the female side as all dating sex sites are. A woman does not have to even put a photo up or complete a profile and they know they will be hit up. Even if you do become a paid member it does not guarantee you will have any success but at least some kind of chance if you pay up and send a message. Just remember the ratios are soooooo lop sided almost 10 men to 1 woman and I wouldn't be surprised if it is a heap more lop sided than that
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RHP User
5 months ago
Waiting and hoping generally leads to nothing. That’s the reality for a guy looking to achieve any goal. Not just attracting women.

We’re the hunting gender and women are the prize. In the crudest of terms that’s always how it’s been.

So hunt and hunt an enjoy it for what it is.
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singlemingling
5 months ago
May not seem fair but as a single woman I'm not paying for an account. There are so many men and couple in here looking for single gals i don't need to. Just the way it is, I've matched with profiles ive liked but if they're unpaid its going no where cuz there is no way to communicate.
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Nic11
4 months ago
As a woman who is still very new to all this, I am not interested in making the first move. For me its about staying in my feminine and allowing the guy to initiate and actually step into his energy and get me off this site.
If I was dominant and wanted to take charge then I would be paying but thats just not me.
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