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Finding a fwb

February 18 2026

As the title suggests, I am looking for a fwb with someone who’s around my age! It’s hard to find one because of the restrictions that come with it! Like I’m only available in mornings (no weekends), i can’t host xx, can travel to some locations, don’t like being kissed on the lips at all! Apart from fwb one of my kinks is also a gangbang wanted to do it since forever (only males) but don’t know where to find! Any tips would be appreciated thanks xoxo 🫶🏼✨

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JustAManNextDoor
4 months ago
When maintaining a successful FWB arrangement, it’s important to establish boundaries, limits, and clear expectations from the outset. Good communication is everything, because the line can easily become blurred and since we’re all human, at some point it probably will be. The key is how you navigate that when it happens. It's a friendship after all.

Make a list of do’s and don’ts. Be mindful about how much personal information you share, and keep a boundary around anything you’d prefer to keep private, the choice is entirely yours.

Having had several long-term FWB relationships over the past 20 years, I believe it can be an excellent lifestyle choice for those who are able to make it work.

As for gangbangs, there are many groups devoted to them, but a word of friendly advice: start with something like a threesome and see whether you actually enjoy being with multiple partners at the same time. Take care, because what may begin as fun can, for some, lead to physical or emotional discomfort. Make sure you’re making an informed decision that’s right for you.
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MsSuperFoxy
3 months ago
Clarity is helpful in arrangements like the one you seek. The more specific you are, the smaller the pool. But the right people will appreciate the honesty.
If you are given shitty excuses like the examples you've stated, ignore and move on. They are demanding and are selfish.

As for seeking a gangbang do a search of groups on here. There is quite a few. Be aware tho, being new some will take advantage. Stay strong with your bounderies and be safe!
Best of luck.

Ms Foxy
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Firejuggler
3 months ago
If a gangbang is what you are after I would suggest a FWB is sorted out first. They can be part of it and can help with the organisation of it all, that way you can help with making sure you are safe.
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seekandplay
3 months ago
The Playpen in Melbourne can organise a gang bang for you. A safe environment, you get to select the men (the host will put a call out, then they are vetted, then you pick).

For the rest, just put it all in your profile. Clearly state everything you have to us. Good luck!
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CallMeV
3 months ago
Organising a gangbang is not so hard as it looks. You have a lot of options, it depends on how bold and courageous you are..

1. Be your boss and organise one for you

2. Still be your boss and let someother group organise it for you.

3. There are events in Melbourne where limited singles can join, you can still have a gangbang at the venue…

If you are looking for a relaxed one, organise one with your fwb, atleast you know someone is there to look after you, your safety and whatnot.

Word “organise” has a lot of layers in it.
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selfless__lover
3 months ago
There is nothing wrong with your rules and boundaries, stick fast on them as there will be someone out there in a similar boat.
I would suggest going to some events or parties and talking to people to see if you click and taking it from there.
Also vanilla dating apps have options like "intimacy without connection" or "short term fun" so you can try those as well.
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nizatz
3 months ago
I’m keen. I can do all ur requests xx
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Letssee1122
3 months ago
Picture might help
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queen1983
2 months ago
I’m looking for the same. Probably 6 months still haven’t found exactly what I’m looking for. I’m friendly, chatti and am a great communicator. A lot have freaked out and thought I would fall in love with them. 🥴 meanwhile I’m have a great home life, kids and a partner I’m in an open relationship so only wanting FWB. Which I explain in the beginning. 🤷‍♀️
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RHP User
a month ago
What can i say ? Im in the same boat... living just south of Perth, looking for daytime meets once the kids are at school. Would love a single mum who just doesnt want the hastles, just friendship, company and cuddles... Im even snipped... but i also cant find anyone... Maybe the shy ones arent brave enough to ask some questions to see if we match...Good luck with your search
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