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Engagement Habits

May 11 2026

Please help me make it make sense.

Another profiles looks at ours. They like and Favourite us. They look nice. I write to them and say thanks for favouriting us. You guys look nice. Would like to get to know you more. Other couple look at our profile twice. But no response. Not anything.

I understand if they accidentally hit favourite. You can just say hey sorry,, mistakenly hit that, let’s move on. No harm no foul. But nothing? Are we adults?

Please, what is this behaviour? If you’re not going to write back, why favourites a profile? Why look multiple times if you’re not interested. Why be on rhp? I really don’t understand.

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OpalRose
a month ago
Man from couple looks at profile. Man favourites couple so his wife can look later. Couple reaches out, and man reads it. Man looks at profile to remind himself. Man shows his wife when she gets home. Wife says ‘nah’ or ‘I just got home let’s discuss this later’. Man doesn’t reply because that’s a little embarrassing. Man reads on forum he owes no one anything as this is all online. Wife tells him to ignore them as she doesn’t want to risk them nagging ‘but why?’

Your last line: “why be on rhp?” To find a matching couple I’d assume. Matching. All four agreeing.
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MrNandMrsB
a month ago
There could be many reasons people do this- it could be that one half of the couple looked and fav’d without checking with the other partner, other partner then sees and doesn’t like, and yes in the ideal world it would be polite to message back however it doesn’t always happen and again people have their reasons why they don’t do that either, trying to figure it out is a waste of time, I wouldn’t sweat those things, there’s so many profiles on here you eventually find ones that align with you, or so we have found
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PartnersnCrime
a month ago
A “like” isn’t always a meaningful signal. One partner might tap it while the other wouldn’t agree at all. Sometimes people are just scrolling casually, or they’ve had a drink and are clicking without much thought. By the next day, they may not even remember it. Don't take it personally
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PandaAndBri
a month ago
Bri- I guess they could be favoriting in case they want to come back and look at our images again for spank bank? We have a couple like that too.
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PartnersnCrime
a month ago
Re multiply profile views. People scroll fast, tap around out of curiosity, forget what they’ve seen, revisit profiles accidentally, or simply don’t register one profile from the next. Realistically, most of profiles use bum/bra/lingerie photos that blur together. What feels highly personal to you is often just another few seconds in someone else’s endless feed.
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SweetSerenade
21 days ago
Fake profiles. That's who does it. Block and move on.
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Oskalabelle
18 days ago
So I loved @opals explanation, very clear. Who has that same infinite wisdom where the profiles are not couple to couple?

For example: couple initiates said like / favourite to male profile, male profile reciprocates with either like, favourite and or a message beyond “hi” “hi sexy”. Couple never responds but comes back to view male profile regularly?

Perhaps we can simply answer any variation of this seen behaviour regardless of who’s profile to who’s profile with one word? …. Bots😂
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