Do Older Women Really Want Younger Guys?
June 21 2025
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FeistyFatty
a year ago
I enjoy some, but not others. Really comes down to the maturity of the man. If they remind me of my 17 or 20 year old sons or cant string a sentence together .... its a hard pass.
Nightglider
a year ago
I prefer younger as long as there is maturity and respect without entitlement. It’s rare for me to find interest in males who are around my age or older. However, know women who like men who are a little more mature.
The number of younger men who show interest is huge, so I have little reason to look around my age group. Many prefer older women.
wanderlustQLD
a year ago
Yasssss 🙋🏽♀️
NeoAndTrin
a year ago
Work on your profile and get at least 1 picture up.
No photo and a username with a bunch of numbers at the end isn't going to attract any attention.
RHP User
a year ago
And location Nairobi 🤔
jhonpet
a year ago
That’s a great question! Many older women do enjoy younger guys for the energy and different perspective they bring. What do you think attracts them the most? Have you had any experiences or met anyone like that? Would love to hear your thoughts!
MsSuperFoxy
a year ago
Oh honey, the stories? They're not just true — some of us wrote the damn chapters and bible.
Older women aren’t chasing boys, But if a younger guy shows up with the right energy, stamina, and respect? We might just let him stay for dessert or we might just eat him alive. 😘
And if you’re “bugled”… sounds like someone bit off more than they could handle. Don’t say we didn’t warn you. 🔥
Ms Foxy
sublime
a year ago
@Nightglider , Spot on , and yes I’m learning to adapt 🤣
Mrs_Deep_Love
a year ago
Nope, not true. The guy I'll always be hot for just turned 57,
ReyandJean
a year ago
She was around 30 years old when we started and over the 10 years or so she has played with men 20 yo to 75 yo and her experience has unfailingly directed her to mature guys. Young men generally trade energy for inexperience and there's little attraction in energiser bunnies who think cock in pussy banging is the way to satisfy a woman.
So if you're young(ish) we'll assess your game from across the room or get a recommendation from a trusted friend before considering play- there is little to recommend in the LS in simply being a younger guy - you need to have game.
The LS is full of young men looking for a root without competing in the vanilla world. How will you be different or better?
Tallfitthick
a year ago
From a guys prospective I definitely prefer younger women and I think most guys do but younger attractive women are harder to hook up with so only option is to try for older
jhonpet
a year ago
Absolutely, many older women do enjoy younger guys! What kind of connections or experiences are you curious about? Are you asking about casual dating, serious relationships, or something else?
seekandplay
a year ago
What stories do you want to know are true? Because I’m sure there’s plenty to share! Of course older women love younger men, some more than others. Me, I prefer my men on the more mature side. Just a personal preference ☺️
Sammmie
a year ago
For me, it has nothing to do with age to an extent and is more about maturity and connection. In my case, I feel I get more interest from younger guys than I do guys my age or older, they do not seem to be interested.
madotara69
a year ago
Respect to the elders is paramount and the old girls have worked hard and veraciously to prey upon the young men and have their ways with them because they are Cougars so the young guys just have to accept the idea as it is what it is.
That’s what I heard anyway.
Mado
Mado Tara xx
angelbaby2017
a year ago
Omg yeeessss 💯 most definitely I bet
hornyhank12
a year ago
I have to say, I my self like older women for some reason past couple of my partners have actually been older then me and a few other women I have been with have some time been a bit more then older then me for sure I don’t see no issues with it at all 😎
S33k1ngL1f3Prtna
a year ago
Not for me.
I prefer 50+
dianet
a year ago
It's actually not age that matters to me, it's maturity, beung socially, emotionally and worldly established and secure with self control. Usually the older are mature and more established etc, although there are exceptions both ways!!
RHP User
a year ago
Fiesty.. grow up.. there's many times I've encountered younger men on here more mature than older men even when they are somewhat slow at making more words into sentence s you people can be difficult. Judge them on everything.. ffs.. strong a sentence together.. that comment alone fiesty puts anyone off. Thinking you're just what? Too good? I love how your here fucking .. very classy but worry about the young stringing sentences together. The young ARE EDUCATED more so than you im guessing. Lol
HotAppitite
a year ago
Darling, if my old wedding dress in the back of my closest is older then you.......
It's a firm No from me...... 🤷♀️RHP User
a year ago
When I joined RHP I met some lovely younger guys, some of whom I had in my life for a few years and I still talk to now as friends. Now, I am looking for guys around my own age, because I feel I'm over the age limit for young lads. I had some great times though, don't regret one minute. 🥰
8inchlovemuscle
a year ago
Yes
snpRye8866
a year ago
😈
Chillfunguy75
a year ago
Shows you how much I know I spent so much of my time trying to get them I never stopped to think ot could've been the other way round lol
KittyKatKate
a year ago
I have seldom been with a guy my age or older but in saying that, I have not been with a guy in his 20s either. A mature approach and no cocky cheesy lines is preferable.
RHP User
a year ago
Absolutely because they possessed more stamina.
Kuti77
a year ago
From a male pov. I Love women older than me. The main thing is putting them first and knowing what they need and give it to them after making that connection. Make sure she gets the big Oo's.!That's where the magic will happen. For both parties. 💦💥💦
Blueflamingo
a year ago
For me, age is not something I really think about too much. I see guys older and younger than myself, everyone is a different experience.
I dont like when they are too young and close to my kids age tho..😅RHP User
a year ago
I was fortunate to be schooled by women 8-10 years my senior in my early 20’s. I had to respect them and listen - I recall one in particular who took no crap but equally taught me so much beyond the obvious about foreplay, mental stimulation and being confident enough to voice what you want and do not want.
I still talk with her on and off. She never exclusively dated younger, it was situational and it happened to have some relevance and benefit to us both at the time.
Summary - age didn’t seem to be a factor. Outlook / connection / emotional readiness was.
Islandfuntimes
a year ago
My hot wife definitely does.
Loves the fact they are so excited. Virile. Turned her on
sandv
10 months ago
The last guy my wife was with was 15 years younger and my wife loved it so much that is all she prefers now and the first time I wasn't involved either just sat back and watched her enjoy herself
NotAlways
10 months ago
Ten to twenty years younger is all I’ll go these days.
A little maturity is nice.
I haven’t been with anyone older than myself for many years.
Younger is definitely better for me anyway.
Whynot081
10 months ago
I personally I think speaking from someone who's first serious relationship was with a lady 9 yrs older than me and most of the ladies for a time were all older I reckon the reason has nothing to do with stamina because most boys are finished in strokes it how u look at them it how you treat them to a man of her equal she is another lady as too an older man it to a young buck she is forbidden fruit and you lust for it just my opinion I have been known to to have been wrong before haha what do you guys think???
NaughtyNinjas
8 months ago
Not entirely true, it’s more on their energy and vibes, but also depends on their maturity
Leelee84
8 months ago
Indeed they do. Society has also changed in favour of the mature women favouring the younger man. Today the younger women aren't as educated or competent in the bedroom, they may be to worried about what they lo9k like or if th3y are ding it right... these younger women maybe better 9ff with an experienced guide, woman or man. This is another stress for men that they dont need added to today's pressures. Feeling like a wild raised testosterone functioning man in the bedroom is what is needed to be portrayed to these younger men, so they can confidently pass their knowledge onto the younger women annd be able to speak about what they want.
This has been a few younger mens perspectives that i have spoken to.
The older woman like myself loves the feel of the younger strong, mighty, stamina induc
MrBMD
8 months ago
Currently taking applications 😎
Bimbocox
6 months ago
As an older woman I much prefer a younger man and have met some amazing younger men on this site over the past few years that I still see occasionally…. Age is just a number 😇😉
FibiFun
6 months ago
@Brisbull88 😉😘 let’s make fun times! X
FibiFun
5 months ago
YES! We “really want younger guys because they’re virile, have stamina for long sessions and blow loads 😋 How’s that for honesty? 😉
TimeandPlace
5 months ago
Ive found it depends on the woman and how you hold yourself.
I had my first experience with a women 28 years my elder when I was 18….but to be fair she only wanted one thing. When I was in my late 20s I found women 15/20 years older started to view my advances a little differently…I learned.
Be courteous, take care of yourself and keep the coarse stuff for the bedroom
Older women have a lot to give , sometimes teach, and ive always found more relaxed about life but thats just me.
Preference is king and all :)
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