M37

Deserve a second chance?

May 15 2026

Recently I have looked at my “blocked list of people”. I don’t even recognise 90% of the list.

I have decided to free them all and give them a second chance lol. Once you unblock you won’t be able to find them if you don’t remember their usernames.

Reasons:
People can make rookie mistakes and get blocked.
Sending a one liner message and get blocked.
Looking a profile multiple times and get blocked.
Our preferences always changes, we might have blocked them when they were not aligning to what we were looking for.
Blocking the people instead of using ignore button, when they were not interested in us.

I have not got any dick pics from anyone, so it was an easy decision for me to release them all and see if we meet again lol 😂

What do you think? Should you give a second chance?

Cheers

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PartnersnCrime
19 days ago
How can we know if you should? In a year on RHP we haven't blocked anyone. Why block? But each to their own and its up to you how you manage your personal space
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Temptress_T
19 days ago
I have unblocked people as I was not able to remember why I blocked them in the first place. After a bit of time seeing them in the chat rooms I remembered why I blocked. Like you said there are many reason people block. I use it as a way to make my experience here more taylored to what I am seeking.
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RHP User
19 days ago
Makes me think about reasons I block people:

- poor comms.
- sense of disinterest.
- lack of obvious compatibility.
- seems they somehow faked the verification.

None of those reasons would warrant a revisit.

Do you block on instinct or for reasons of logic? Perhaps that makes you think twice if it’s more an emotive response in the moment.
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boobsandbusted
19 days ago
A dude has the need for a block list but has a hidden profile ,who have thought 😂😂😂😂😂
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MsSuperFoxy
19 days ago
Yeah, Nah!.
Why would I give someone a 2nd chance when they've clearly pushed bounderies, have been rude, sent innappropriate messages/dick pics etc?
They are blocked for a reason. These people are strangers, most I havent met.

In the real world would anyone put up with the above, let alone from strangers?

Ms Foxy
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CallMeV
19 days ago
I have made rookie mistake like blocking the people who have shown “not interested” me. Later I have realised that people’s interest, likes, types changes over a period of time, I should not have blocked them rather put them in the ignored list.

Rude, dick pics, disrespectful behaviour don’t deserve a second chance.
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nightingale8
19 days ago
I block very sparingly mostly because I don’t want to give people so much importance that I go out of my way to change their access. Mostly I’ve just changed how I engage with messages altogether, for better or worse. If I have blocked there’s a good reason and I can trust my past self on that, completely unconflicted. So no, no second chances. I value my own well-being
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Deetsy
19 days ago
Those in my blocked list are those who have harassed me in some way. It might have been constant messages to no response, constant requests for private cams, the sense they are lying about a situation to gain my time and energy or constant pestering when I have told them I wasn’t interested.
I will generally click ignore or not interested, but if they relentlessly message, I will block them. This tells me a lot about their character and demonstrates their lack of self control and respect to my boundaries, it also proves how little consent means to them. I don’t need that shit in my life.
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Felicitous
19 days ago
I block for a reason.

Not chancing another interaction to elicit whatever reason that reason was.

Hopefully they have evolved and matured for themselves but I have no interest unblocking. I certainly don't think I'm 'missing' out on the potential of someone's potential.

Actions have consequences.

I guess as has been pointed out...
Unblocking a female profile is likely a different experience.. as 90% are guests gives you the option to reach out/ pursue.

Unblocking a male account gives him the same access and ability.
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MFMHotWife
13 days ago
Hmmmmm, interesting topic.... I've blocked plenty for one reason or another, and have no real desires to unblock them, plenty of fish in the sea and I'm not into offering second chances, especially when we've been ghosted so often. Their loss!
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VibingBunny
10 days ago
Your post and the comments had me thinking - I’ve unblocked and been surprised … apart from a few check ins it’s been relatively tame. I’ll keep that in mind 😉
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