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Dating the enemy
September 01 2025
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NeoAndTrin
9 months ago
Are you thinking of sleeping with a Trump supporter? 🤪
boobsandbusted
9 months ago
Depends on the trait ,a couple yes ,but mostly no ,some are thrust bad and as long as the good outweighs the bad ,then it’s ok
Flirty2020
9 months ago
Absolutely not.
Nor will I take one for the team.boobsandbusted
9 months ago
Sometimes it’s ok ,just depends on the trait and how bad it is , as long as the good outweighs the bad ,it can still be good ,and hell no ,not just to do it for self and claim a win in your head , and a bit of fuck you , no thanks ,if I actually dislike someone, or feel crossed by them ,straight answer is no ,I’m more of avoidance at all costs type person ,
Mr b
RHP User
9 months ago
I have done it.
He was full on.
ADHD. Scattered and wanted anal,
I didn’t like it.
It left me feeling unhappy, like a part of me was missing and I felt cold afterwards and used.
He was toxic and vile.
He didn’t hurt me physically but mentally and emotionally I didn’t feel safe with him.
He’s a taker. A user. An abuser. I think we met up 3 times total.
He was too much for me to handle. Completely poisonous with a cold, detached, unfriendly personality.
I’d rather die than be anywhere near him again. He sent me a message not too long ago asking to see me after ghosting me for ages,
I told him that I would rather jump of a bridge than let him near me again.
I blocked him. He was the worst of the worst I met from here.RHP User
9 months ago
That be a no for me. My compass won't allow me.
When I view a profile I like to check out their activities hoping they may have been on these forums as that gives me a better idea of who someone is.
In fact forum activity means so much more in this way than any validation could
Nightglider
9 months ago
This post has me curious as to what sparked the question?
Personal experience perhaps?
It’s both interesting and obscure.
Is this a type of kink?
Cucknshells
9 months ago
No I don’t think so. For me I trust my gut and if something feels off I won’t go there.
Shells xx
Inflation
9 months ago
This is going to be an interstate topic...lol
Myself Personally, i probably wouldn't go there.
MrandMrsEss
9 months ago
The only thing worse than sex with zero connection is sex with someone you just don’t really like. There’s a lot of people I don’t connect with but I don’t dislike them, if they were super hot then some fun might be ok but doesn’t matter how hot you are, if I don’t like you as a decent human there’s no way I’m going to enjoy sleeping with the enemy.
Notice_Me
9 months ago
Have had a girl tell me to fuck her like I hate her. They’re a special 'breed'
Started therapy so unfortunately I have standards nowboobsandbusted
9 months ago
Have to add to my previous comments or comments thanks to rhp that will not allow me to delete although I’ve tried ten times ,
I didnt see or acknowledge the word destainable , I misread whole tone of the question ,rereading it properly ,the answer is a clear no ,
Mr b
Andrea_Sydney
9 months ago
That’s an interesting question!
I see that almost everyone says no to it.
My view is a little different. I guess I will be realistic in that how do we know whether we agree with someone’s attitudes and opinions on all sorts of things, when realistically, the conversation topics on here with messages exchanged are all around desires and other much more interesting things when looking for exciting sex.
I am a very accepting person and when I look at my friends (whether or not I have sex with them), I take them as they are. I don’t see how it would be possible to surround ourselves only with people who reflect 100% our personal views. Anyone who claims they only associate with people who do have the exact same opinions on everything is either lying or hasn’t actually checked or is extremely judgemental.
I have to like a person, really like them. Then I will accept them, rough edges, contrary opinions and everything.
If I don’t like someone or they do me wrong in an unfixable way, then I will stop associating with them.
In rhp context, I don’t ask during message exchange what their opinions are on stuff non-related to sex/relationships/friendships.
And I’m out as soon as someone starts a type of job interview asking me all sorts unrelated stuff. I’m looking for beautiful and exciting human - ultimately sexual - encounters. Not for someone’s assessment on my moral compass.
In saying that - it hasn’t happened often. So far, the odd (inexperienced) couple started political or other topics. But yes, I’m out then. That’s not what I’m here for.
I would not be as arrogant as to demand that a person I want to have sex with aligns with all my other opinions - what are the odds of finding that? Even my partner and I differ on some stuff. That must be allowed in a relationship.
So realistically - I probably have had sex with people with contrary opinions. How would I know 🤪RHP User
9 months ago
I’ve fucked someone with a serious personality clash to me. Quite a few times over a few years.
We did not gel at all on the intro coffee. We even talked about how bad it was after. Yet 6 months later we spoke again and went for a drink. There was a seriously weird chemistry which I look back on now as spite, hate, disgust but equally wanting to fuck because the hormones danced a disco.
I could happily fuck someone I hate but then I have hardly any limits. Give me strange, taboo, mentally fucked up any day and I’ll pay close attention.Sawadee
9 months ago
No , cant see any sense fucking someone you dont have anything in common with when you can put your energy into fucking someone you fancy...
The closest l came was when l dated a girl who l wasnt really attracted to but who turned out to be a real pocket rocket between the sheets.. But never any spite ever ...RHP User
9 months ago
Doubtful, particularly if they wore it on their sleeve
RHP User
9 months ago
Personality trait? Possibly. While people-pleasers may be frustrating, I'd be curious to see if that negative trait could be a positive one in bed 🤔
Belief system? No chance.Tezz69
9 months ago
Following
selfless__lover
9 months ago
I guess it depends on the personality trait and beliefs that you find off putting. Following a different football team or wanting marriage versus me not, yes I could deal with for some casual fun. Racist, bigoted, haters, no thanks
RHP User
8 months ago
No, you have to be comfortable and confident in the person your with and if they don't share positive values that promote respect kindness and egalitarian principles, they are out of my (your) social network. Phil
RHP User
8 months ago
Nope, no way. Each to there own I guess but that sounds horrendous to me 🤣
funlovingii
8 months ago
It’s a no from me - anything sparking the feeling of an enemy being a partner would just mess with my brain and i think my thinking head (the smaller of the two) would have no part in it and take his bat and balls with him bahaha
KinkyAdventure
7 months ago
Love this idea…I’ve thought about it too…I remember a few years back really clashing with a co-worker, but at the same time thinking how hot under the collar she made me. I seriously thought that reconciling our differences in the bedroom would have been the best way forward! Thanks for that flashback 🔥
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