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DDLG Chatting with a Daddy Dom

February 05 2026

Hi, I’ve recently started chatting with and having some casual dates with a Daddy Dom and looking to take this into the bedroom. So far he has told me he likes his girl to submit and behave, he will train her and she will worship him, restrained, and just with oral before he then cares for her and worships her pussy followed by intercourse and cuddling. Spanking, slapping and other punishment for naughty behaviour have been mentioned.
The word little hasn’t been used yet and there is no element of nappies or anything which I don’t think I could do (just not my thing)
I’m keen to learn how to be a fulfilling girl for my daddy in this fantasy. What to say that will turn him on, how this role play works. He seems to edge himself and use control over his own climax too. I’ve looked online but keen to hear from members what this is for them.
I’m loving it by the way. Finding the dynamic very hot. He’s younger but the roles work for us.

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MsSuperFoxy
4 months ago
Perception vs reality.
It all sounds lovely on paper/texting all the control, training, worship of pussy etc but I noticed there’s no mention of aftercare anywhere in your post.

Genuine question: has he actually discussed aftercare with you yet? Not hinted. Not implied. Discussed.
Because a Daddy Dom who talks punishment and control without proactively covering aftercare, IMO is a red flag, not a fantasy.

Ms Foxy
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seekandplay
4 months ago
A Daddy Dom who is looking for a submissive to train should be having much deeper conversations around what he will do to look after you and ease you into the D/s dynamic. If he’s just gone to the stuff that sounds appealing and no mention of starting slow to understand your tolerance, easing you into the various ways he will control you then there’s your first red flag. Has he mentioned aftercare? Spoken about using safe words? Has he asked you what your limits are? The fact that you don’t want to be a little - he needs to know that. Does he? None of us can tell you what to say to turn him on, we don’t know him. That’s what you build together in your D/s dynamic. Remember - there is a difference between a Dom and being dominant. When I was very new to the D/s dynamic there were so many things I did because I thought I ‘had to’. The sub, surprisingly, has a lot of power and control. Make sure YOU are in control of what YOU want ❤️
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MrandMrsEss
4 months ago
I tend to try and not get too deep into kink in the virtual space. I think these things require the trust that only comes with time spent together but then I guess it’s fair enough to indulge in some fantasy so you know what you’re both in for.
There are kinks I explore with my partner that have taken a great deal of time and familiarity to come about and I wouldn’t think I could just jump in with a new person and explore these things right off the bat, but then I do also never say never.
I’d think you need to spend time together without jumping into anything potentially harmful.
A good daddy/dom/human of any sort will take the time to make sure you’re both on the same page before delving deeper.
As for tips, just be yourself and relax into what feels right and enjoy the ride.
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TerraceParties
4 months ago
Can we talk offline I have concerns about this
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