Age gap relationships

March 08 2024

Ive always been interested in older guys and am looking for a serious relationship with a guy older than me. Ive been hurt to many times by guys my age and love the protective safe feeling that older men give me. How do I go about finding one who is genuine and wants to give me that rather than 5 minuites and they are gone?

Comments

  • Obi1kenietzsche

    Obi1kenietzsche

    2 years ago

    Easy:
    It’s called discernment, patience, self restraint and intuition.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    Think like a man, act like a woman.
    Before they have a chance to say, "I've got to go", on their last pump, state, "Time to go" Adiós babe! No thank you, no nothing, just push them off, get up, put your big pants on and walk away.
    Easy as that. 👌

    Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    Ohhhh, if they call or text you, just ghost them.

    Ms Foxy

  • MickyZ

    MickyZ

    2 years ago

    Funny. That is the opposite of my wife who wants a young guy for five minutes and gone.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    2 years ago

    You do you but remember age hasn't got anything to do with being ethical, protective or genuine. I would read, watch and learn heaps about attachment and try to figure out your own attachment style. Thats what helped me most to understand why I may be attracted to certain types of people. Intuition generally comes about from understanding what lies beneath to make you attracted to someone in both healthy and unhealthy ways.

  • DannyMF

    DannyMF

    2 years ago

    Just be careful, just because someone is older doesn’t mean they’re mature or stable (financially, emotionally or mentally). And depending on the gap a lot will assume control. Hope you find a good one.

  • Lion_and_cub

    Lion_and_cub

    2 years ago

    Maybe chat with miss cub and see what you have in common?
    Advice on psychological drivers is well made. Attachment theory, good advice. Know yourself. Watch out for lovebombers who become controlling types, irrespective of the age.

  • SlutTherapist

    SlutTherapist

    a year ago

    I’ve just turned 53 and my partner is 34. We have been together for 10 years. When we met she was attracted to the maturity, and that I was settled in life. Her bf’s in the past were too busy smoking bongs and playing with cars and motor bikes while drinking beers in the garage.

  • DrFucalot

    DrFucalot

    5 months ago

    Ive just come out of a very large age gap marriage. Can be great fun and really very satisfying for both partners, but they are also very hard work as the years roll on. The other thing to note is as with any relationship love is blind, maybe to you and your partner, but I must admit I don't miss the attention, gossip, murmurs etc when you enter a room. Also your interests and world outlook will charge so much between now and say 10 years. In 10 years my wife will be 37 but Ill be 70 and Im sure Ill be much less as will your partners, however in 10 years Ill be 70 and it would be highly unlikely that id be that flexible re my outlook, interests etc I guess the point is if you do find a guy that you care about and he is older I am sure you will have a wonderful few years, maybe forever. But the other point to remember is if he cares about you he will be actively helping you grow and maybe such as my wife and I's relationship, you may just outgrow him. Having said all of that I wouldn't change my last 7 yrs for the world. Goodluck